The Gift of Paying It Forward

Thomas Chew

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When was the last time you received kindness from somebody? When was the last time you extended an act of kindness to someone else, and to what end? As it turns out, there can be tremendous merits and outcomes in paying forward a kindness received with a good deed to somebody else, especially when done out of gratitude. The concept of "Paying It Forward" is nothing new, but in our world, I believe we could do with more compassion and selflessness as it brings out the best in us.

The Art of Paying it Forward Without Spending a Dime

When we pay it forward we commit an act of selflessness that transcends our connection to other humans on the planet, elevating the human experience in a positive way. Whether it’s a showing of kindness, faith, or even compassion, it all makes a difference and can potentially trigger a chain reaction of reciprocated behavior.

The Power of Altruism

Classical economics adopts a model that says people are primarily driven by material self-interest. Political science assumes that people are driven to maximize their power. But this worldview is clearly wrong. In real life, the push of selfishness is matched by the pull of empathy and altruism. This is not Hallmark card sentimentalism but scientific fact: As babies our neural connections are built by love and care. We have evolved to be really good at cooperation and empathy. We are strongly motivated to teach and help others.

The Paying it Forward Paradox | Wayne Baker | TEDxUofM

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Testimonials and Referral Notes

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Ranjani | Housewife

I first met Thomas when he took over my policies after my previous advisor left the industry. He took the initiative to reach out to me and ensured that I knew exactly what coverage I have. Afterwards, he recommended some solutions to suit my current life circumstance as it had been a long time since I last reviewed my portfolio. Throughout the entire process, he was patient in explaining everything to my husband and I.

Zhi Xuan | Administrative Assistant

Thomas is someone who is fun-loving and caring. Back when we were working together, our work environment was also always filled with laughter due to his presence. He frequently made an effort to check in with our colleagues to ensure that they were doing okay, and would also help us out in whatever way he could.

Jian Chee

I’m excited to share a few words about my financial consultant and friend, Thomas. Thomas’s background in Psychology helps him really connect with people. He’s super empathetic and great at breaking down complex financial concepts so they're easy to understand. Plus, he's incredibly good at working with people from all different backgrounds. Ever since I started working with him, I’ve seen fantastic results, especially my investment! Thomas is also very resourceful and knowledgeable, always finding the best solutions for any financial situation. He’s always there for his clients, going above and beyond to help them reach their goals. If you’re looking for a financial consultant who’s knowledgeable, caring, and dedicated, Thomas is your guy. Highly recommended!

Richard | Private Hire Driver

As a private hire driver, I meet many people with different personalities on a daily basis. Thomas was a passenger that I met a few months ago, and we hit it off instantly. Our conversation lasted for the entire 40-minute journey, and I felt comfortable talking to him as if he is a close friend of mine. Based on our conversation, I could tell that he is someone who has a lot of empathy for others. When we talked about his job, I was sure that his clients are being well taken care of due to his passion to help others and the empathy that he displays towards anyone he meets.

Sarah | Administrative Executive

Thomas is always very prompt with his replies. He has helped my family members and I to identify and address the protection gaps in our portfolio, as well as assisted us with several claims. I am very grateful for his advice and help.

Dzulkifli | Administrative Executive

I have had several bad experiences working with other advisors before, and I shared this with Thomas during our first meetup. He not only empathised with me, but also assured me that he would be there for me and my family should the need arise. True enough, he stuck to his word, and has assisted my family members with a number of claims to date (one was even facilitated by him while he was overseas on a trip). I am grateful for his service, and highly recommend him to anyone looking for an advisor that truly cares for his clients.